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Courage Is A Gift
by: Gerri D Smith
“It is not what
happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”
-Epictetus, the 1st
Century Greek Philosopher
Courage is daring to
be… Brave. Enterprising. Bold. In your business or personal life,
how often do you question your thoughts, your actions, or your
motives? When you don’t exercise the ability to always test
yourself, you may lose not only your confidence, but more
importantly, you lose the ability to focus, to know yourself, your
friends, and your customers.
When faced with
decisions and challenges, asking yourself questions every day, every
hour, every moment gives you the courage to discover what is
important to you and what a particular situation means to you, and
what result or solution you’d like to accomplish.
Not many people
experience life the way they want it to be. If things don’t work out
the way you want, don’t find someone else to blame. Know what goals
you want, then question your actions in reaching them. Compare your
answers to what others may wish for you. After all, having a
successful business or a life of contentment, requires you to know
yourself and the goals that are best for you.
Courage is getting in
the habit of looking inward and going with your highest feeling of
what’s true and what feels right for you. Apply this inner
evaluation in your business and in your personal life. This is
important if you wish to grow and stay successful. It works!
Have the courage to be
curious (not nosy!). A quest for knowledge about life and the people
you interact with is good. Look for answers to whatever you plan to
do. This keeps you thoughtful. Keep a journal if it helps. Over
time, you can look back and discover the results of your actions (or
reactions) to certain problems. Then when faced with future or
similar problems, you’ll have a ready solution.
Realize your
weaknesses and work toward improving them. Continue to renew
yourself and remember that life has a way of constantly testing your
ability and courage to deal with it. When you can learn to
appreciate the challenges in both your business and personal life,
you find inner strength. Then you’re able to bring about an inner
peace and spirituality that gives you a good tool for building
self-confidence and self esteem.
There’s something
inside each of us that fuels our motivation, our passion, and our
reason to succeed. Keep encouraging yourself to take the necessary
risks to refuel your confidence. Question your motives. Then search
for the answer. Question any doubts you or others may have about
your courage to succeed. You are what’s important.
Don’t let negative
thoughts get in the way of your progress and your goals. Control
your thoughts. Think about what’s important to you. When your
thoughts are positive, they have a way of replenishing your courage.
No matter how often unpleasant or difficult challenges get you down,
don’t give in to negative thinking. Just pick yourself up and move
on. Focus on what gives you your strength and uniqueness.
Remember: motivation,
passion, and your reason to succeed in life, as well as in business,
are essential requirements to reaching your goals. Live life in a
constant state of awareness, with peaceful thoughts, a dash of
forcefulness, and a good measure of faith and spirituality. You will
then be exercising your gift of courage.
About The Author
Gerri D Smith is publisher and host of multiple Gateways to
inspiration, motivation, and information for individuals, small
business owners, and entrepreneurs. Gerri’s internet business
resource creates ways for you to unlock the doors to success and
income. To help you reach more of your personal and financial
goals, become one of the exclusive subscribers to her Free
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