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5 Tips to Reduce Holiday
Depression
by: Wayne F. Perkins
While war and poor economic conditions begin to affect people all
over the world, more and more people suffer with depression. The
more we focus on news events and the business climate, the more we
are depressed. Whatever the reason you feel is the cause of your
depression, the following five simple tips guarantee you reduce it
significantly.
1. Do not read newspapers.
Newspapers publish negative stories most of the time. Even in
peaceful periods, newspapers will find the worst in humanity and
place negative stories on display in order to promote sales and
subscribers. Stories focused on War, rebellion, death, destruction,
doom and despair abound in the newspapers.
Stop reading the newspaper and reduce the negative input to your
brain.
2. Turn off your television.
Watching and listening about the horrible economy and the losses
associated with War will add to depression. In fact, you guarantee
the feeling of helplessness. Helplessness allows depression to
nurture. If you really need to watch or listen to these kinds of
news stories, promise yourself you will bury yourself in the
documentaries that are sure to follow in the next 5 or 10 years. A
way you can eliminate most of the negative input to your brain is by
setting it aside for a date somewhere in the future. I guarantee in
the future, you will not find it very interesting.
When visitors come to your home, make sure you turn off your
television and keep it off. News television broadcasters are
fighting for your guests' attention as they promote despair, war,
death, and destruction with many headline news interruptions. Those
little banners that run across the bottom of the screen achieve your
attention and they take hold of your consciousness. Television will
diminish your positive spirit.
3. Say good things about others
My Mother always says, "if you can't say anything nice about
others, don't say anything at all." However, when you find yourself
in a conversation and a relative says, "Remember Uncle Phil?" " He
was an alcoholic" Respond with " yes, Uncle Phil was an alcoholic
and he was the most charitable person, I have ever met."
Connect your friend's negative statement about Phil with a
positive one. Set yourself up to find the positive in anyone's
statement and you will keep negative thoughts and depression from
overtaking your life.
4. Get physical exercise
Adults forget about exercise when suffering from depression. Make
sure you are exercising daily and sending more oxygen to your brain
cells. The result of exercise will improve your health as well as
your attitude.
5. Breathe deep and relax.
Practice the following breathing exercise to relax your body and
mind.
Breathe deeply and relax. For 3 minutes each hour take a short
mental vacation.
You can engage in this exercise while you are standing in the
checkout line at the supermarket or when listening to others while
talking on a telephone. You can complete the exercise at home or at
work.
Take three deep breathes and relax. As you inhale, concentrate on
calm and peaceful thoughts. You may think about relaxing by a
mountain, by the ocean or comfortably in your favorite room at home.
As you exhale, concentrate on pushing any tension out of your
lungs.
Focus on positive images in your life. Focus on laughter, love,
excitement, and hope.
Keep breathing in and out in this pattern until you feel better.
If you practice the exercise often, you will notice wonderful
changes in your outlook and in other aspects of your life.
Reduce your depression now! Enjoy your holidays, family, your
friends, and your life.
--Wayne F. Perkins
About The Author
Wayne F. Perkins is a clinical hypnotherapist and author of "How to
Hypnotize Yourself Without Losing Your Mind." offers hypnosis
scripts for a variety of problems.
http://www.wayneperkins.net/
"My mission in life is to help you achieve your mission in
life."
wayne@wayneperkins.net
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